I know what you’re thinking, “how can you be a lesbian and have a vagina?” While this question may have come up to you as you’ve been reading this blog for a while, I’m not going to argue that the answer is “you can’t” because there are many people who are lesbian. Many people are lesbian who have other sexual orientations as well.
It is true that there are certain traits that are more common in women than men, but its pretty much universally accepted that both women and men can have vaginas. It’s simply a matter of your body type, and the way you look at it.
I’ll throw out another example. I think I’ve read somewhere that a lot of lesbians love “dildos” just like the gay community does. Just like gay men, there are certain things that are expected of you, and you are expected to be one of those things.
Yes, there are a lot of people in the lesbian community that actually like being tied up. Some even go so far as to call it a fetish. I think it’s a shame that many lesbians are so adamant about their feelings being tied up because, honestly, it’s like they’re being oppressed. You don’t get to do what you want to do simply because you’re a woman, regardless of whether or not you like it.
I have to agree with the above statement. A lot of lesbians will say that theyre not comfortable if their partner is tied up, but if theyre able to keep their hands off of each other, that is what it is all about. Whether or not they like it or not, theyre comfortable with who they are, and this is the only thing that makes them feel alive and sexy.
We are not so much against lesbians as we are against people who are lesbian in that they are taking a power that is theirs to use and abusing it by doing it to someone else. That doesnt even make sense, as it would only be used in a situation where the other party wouldnt give it up.
The only thing that keeps us from being just as disgusted by lesbians is that it is a taboo subject. Like a child who is molested, or a girl who gets gang raped, it is not illegal, but because there is such a stigma attached to it, it is treated like such a shameful thing.
The fact that it is a taboo subject, only serves to make it more terrifying. But more than that, it creates a sort of power imbalance. I mean, can you really be a lesbian and have that power over someone else? And it doesn’t stop there. One of my favorite jokes of all time is the story of a girl who makes a video of herself and uploads it on youtube.
The video is so bad, you would be surprised how many people have it on their computers. At no point does the video state that it is a “man’s” video or that its a “man’s” video. Instead it states that it is a “woman’s” video. In fact, it even claims that men can only get into it. It even states that its a woman’s video because she had sex with a man.
It doesn’t stop there. The video claims that it was made by a woman, even though the woman herself insists that it was made by a man. The women is the one who gets to decide whether or not to upload the video, but the guy is the one who has to decide whether or not to delete it.